Dating during the Holidays....Part 1

For some, being single during the holidays can be tough, or it can be a great way to get out and meet new and interesting people. Here are some tips to assist you in making that love connection during the holidays:

1. Let everyone know you are single!
It’s the perfect time of year to broadcast to your friends that you single and searching and that you are available to accompany another single person to a holiday event should they need a date. Announce to your family that you’re single this holiday season, and because of that, you might invite someone to the festivities who is also single but doesn’t have family living close by to celebrate with. In the end, get the word out and expand your social network.

2. Accept every holiday invitation.
Unless a holiday party is a challenge to get to or you know an “ex” will be present, make a point of accepting every holiday invitation that comes your way – no matter how unusual, far fetched or random. In fact, the more events you attend the more comfortable you will become to step outside of your safety zone and expose yourself to new groups of people.

3. Be prepared for spontaneous Holiday Cheer!
As a single person, it may be assumed that your calendar is much more flexible than a parent with three kids. Therefore it may not be uncommon for someone like yourself to receive last-minute invites to holiday functions. Make sure you have one or two holiday outfits ready to wear that are clean, appropriate and festive.

4. Reconnect with old friends.
If you must have a date for an event, it is perfectly fine to consider an old friend or someone you know that is also single and searching. The evening can be a fun way to stroll around and socialize. Tell your single friend that you’ll be game to be their “date” for the next holiday gathering s/he might be invited to. It’s a great way to network and meet new people!

5. Plan for mistletoe and stolen kisses.
If you are single, there is no harm in hanging around the Mistletoe. This way, you can strike up a conversation about the silly mistletoe tradition and even cop a few great kisses! While many of the recipients may not be what you’re looking for, you never know….. people meet in the strangest places and you might just like someone that has been strolling around throughout the night. Hopefully, you can make eye contact with them and get them to walk over to your locale….under the mistletoe!

So, see, being single during the Holidays is not necessarily a bad thing! Get out there are spread that holiday cheer, and I bet this time next year you won't be single any longer!

Happy Holidays from your friends at Great Expectations!