Great Expectations Top Ten Dating Do’s & Don’ts

1.  Don’t be late. Being late does not increase anticipation, it shows lack of respect and that your time is more important than theirs.

2.  Dress to Impress. Dress appropriately for the location, don’t show too much skin, but look like you put effort into getting ready. You don’t get a second chance to make a first impression!

3.  Keep the conversation light. Avoid all talk of past relationships- good or bad, steer away from religion, politics & sex, and be sure not to come off as a “complainer”.

4. Listen and engage in the conversation. Ask questions, without getting too personal…this isn’t therapy!

5. Have a positive attitude!  Don’t be afraid to try a new cuisine, see a movie you wouldn’t normally see, or see a band that is out of your listening range. You never know, you just might like it!

6.  Don’t Drink & Date!  Know yourself and your limits. There is nothing sexy about a sloppy first date. Also, be cautious of what you order. We’re not saying stick to a salad, but if you order the steak, maybe don’t add the lobster! Show restraint & respect. It is a recession, after all!

7. Be realistic with your expectations. Dinner does not mean marriage. Go, enjoy yourself and see where it goes, but….

8. Don’t drag out the inevitable. If you are not feeling a connection, don’t stay for that second drink or dinner. Or give that good night kiss. Be honest with yourself and your feelings. No need to hurt anyone else’s feelings either.

9.  Who pays the check? Most men agree it is their responsibility, and gladly do so, but ladies, always offer! Don’t assume he will pay- no man wants to feel like a meal ticket!

10. If you had a good time, make sure to tell him! A follow-up call, text or email is always appreciated.